I resolve to speak ill of no man whatever, not even in a matter of truth; but rather by some means excuse the faults I hear charged upon others, and upon proper occasions speak all the good I know of everybody.
- Benjamin Franklin
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Damaged or Destroyed Relationships: Additional Resources
These references supplement the Knowledge Base Essay, Damaged or Destroyed Relationships.
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Schneider, Carl D. ""I'm Sorry": The Power of Apology in Mediation." , 1900 Available at: http://www.mediate.com/articles/apology.cfm [Backup Link] This article discusses the importance of an apology in mediation. It outlines whether or not to use it as a technique, assessing whether or not it will help, and the legalities surrounding an apology. Reconciliation After Violent Conflict: A Handbook. International Institute for Democracy and Electoral Assistance (IDEA). Available at: Primary Link [Backup Link] This lengthy publication offers a rough guide for how to go about promoting reconciliation in the aftermath of violent conflict. Though the authors recognize that there is no prescription for this difficult task, this handbook is loaded with thoughtful suggestions. IDEA's mission involves the promotion of sustainable democracy around the world, and this handbook is aimed specifically at the tasks that must be accomplished in post-violence situations in order for democracy to blossom. IDEA considers addressing the legacy of violence and rebuilding shattered relationships as a primary task. The Power of Apologies. Available at: http://www.colorado.edu/Ombuds/Apologies1.pdf [Backup Link] This short piece explains how to make an effective apology and discusses why an apology can be such a significant step toward repairing a damaged relationship.
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Davis, Laura. I Thought We'd Never Speak Again: The Road from Estrangement to Reconciliation. New York: Harper Collins, 2002. This book examines reconciliation, primarily in interpersonal relationships. The work includes stories about reconciliation as well as helpful advice on how to go about it. The author focuses specifically on helping the individuals harmed by a damaged relationship themselves or that are currently embroiled in conflict.
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Conflict Resolution Workshop: Negele Borena, Ethiopia. Available at: http://www.hannd.net/hannd/conflict/negele.html [Backup Link] This brief article describes what is being done to mend the broken relationships between local Oromo and Somali communities affected by resource conflict in the Borena and Liban Zones of southern Ethiopia. The two pastoral groups share a long history of economic, social, and cultural integration, which was eroded by the conflict. Wolleh, Oliver. "Cyprus: A Civil Society Caught Up in the Question of Recognition." , 2002 Available at: Primary Link [Backup Link] This article details the history of ethnic conflict between Greek and Turkish residents of the island of Cyprus. The island was divided into two separate parts in 1974, and both parties continue to deny one another recogntion and both avoid substantive confidence-building measures. The article discusses efforts toward reconciliation and prospects for the future of Cyprus.
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Analysis: Intensifying Israeli and Palestinians Clashes Pose Great Challenges for President Bush and his Road Map for Peace. NPR. June 12, 2003. Available at: Primary Link [Backup Link] This audio link talks about President Bush's "Road Map for Peace" as clashing between Israeli and Palestine continues. |