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Introduction: Robert Stains, program director of the Public Conversations Project, recommends holding a social event before the formal commencement of a dialogue group. This allows participants to get to know each other and helps to reduce stereotypes.


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Human Connection
Robert Stains
Program Director, Public Conversations Project, Watertown, Massachusetts
Interviewed by
Julian Portilla
2003

When people come to an event, we usually try to do some sort of human connection activity before there's a formal dialogues. So we'll have a meal, or some way for people to interact with each other without talking about the issue, so there is a common human connection that's made before people identify where they stand. That's often the place where the stereotypes start to fall away. When we were doing abortion work for instance, we would do these dinners, people would talk about their vacations, or kids or whatnot, and of course everyone is trying to suss out who's pro-choice and who's pro-life based on what they wore, or where they were from, and then they'd get into the dialogue room and discover that they were really wrong, and a lot of the time about people on their own side too, which was a pretty cool thing.

 
We are, each of us angels with only one wing; and we can only fly by embracing one another. -- Luciano de Crescenzo

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